Leaving conflict unresolved hinders business progress, so we strive to resolve it. The great physicist and philosopher David Bohm categorized these approaches into two types (see 'Dialogue', Eiji Press, 2007).
One is determining who is "right" by deciding a winner and loser. This is called "debate." In English, it's "discussion." The word "discussion" shares its root with "percussion," meaning "to strike" or "to break," implying "to defeat the other side."
Debate is a battle to prove one's own correctness. While it may sometimes end in a draw or compromise, a winner and loser are always determined. The loser either sheathes their "I am right" spear or pretends to do so, bringing the debate to a close. In truth, most of what we do in corporate or organizational meetings is this kind of debate. Even in seemingly calm meetings, victory or defeat is quietly decided on the spot.
The weapon always used in these debates is "analysis." We fight on the scoreboard of victory and defeat, the KPI (Key Performance Indicator), using the PDCA management method. It's the familiar way we're accustomed to. However, relying solely on this approach means something is lost.
Another way to resolve conflict is through "dialogue." The word "dialogue" is said to derive from "creating a flow of meaning or words (logos) across (dia)." Dialogue does not involve a battle where one person defeats another's "correctness." Dialogue is based on the idea that every opinion is a truth for the person holding it.
While there are various techniques for "dialogue," the fundamental practice remains the same: placing all opinions on the table, speaking, listening, and feeling. The "all" opinions placed on the table in dialogue refer to the opinions of every participant. But there is another meaning: "all" also means releasing the suppressed emotions that have been kept hidden within another part of oneself. In dialogue, not only surface opinions but even underlying emotions are brought to the table and shared.
Native Americans understood the effectiveness of dialogue in building sustainable societies. In their circle-shaped gatherings around the fire, the elders' opinions weren't automatically prioritized. When one person spoke, no one interrupted until they finished. Everyone stood on equal footing, advancing discussions to solve community challenges.
Emergence from Dialogue
As dialogue continues, qualities emerge that transcend the simple sum of each individual's original opinions. By standing in another's shoes and embracing diverse perspectives, one's view of things can shift dramatically. Even things one was desperately trying to prove can suddenly seem ridiculous—a paradigm shift occurs. Then, something new—a new meaning that didn't exist at the start—suddenly emerges. This phenomenon is called emergence. Crucially, this emergence absolutely cannot occur through mere repetition of "debate."
What emerges can be innovation—value transcending existing concepts—new organizational culture, or teamwork. The key difference between "debate" and "dialogue" lies in whether matters are resolved within the confines of participants' pre-existing perspectives, or whether something new emerges.

Emergence can also be likened to a flock of birds. Each bird simply maintains distance from its neighbors while flying, yet when this is done consistently, a new collective form emerges.
The reason "dialogue" is essential in today's VUCA era is that we have reached a point where we must "emerge" a future that is not merely an extension of the past. The "correctness" we sought to prove through "debate" is merely a concept built within the small vessel of my own past experiences as an individual. That way of thinking alone can only set a "future as an extension of the past" in the VUCA era. Within the scope of that "set future," we engage in business, fighting over a shrinking pie.
Unfortunately, however, the practice of "dialogue" has not taken root in the realm of Japanese business. In this column, I intend to explore the concept of "dialogue" within the business domain.

The author of this column, Hiroyuki Egami, depicts how a paradigm shift in the financial industry can be sparked through "dialogue" in his book published in July, 'The Bank That Engages in Dialogue: Future Finance as Envisioned by Frontline Leaders'. The themes explored in this "dialogue" are rich and varied, including "leadership," "decentralized management," and "the essence of money." Even if you are not involved in the financial industry, I highly recommend picking up a copy.